happy monday everyone! i hope you all had a splendid weekend!
i got to watch peter pan this weekend! ::happiness:: i went over to raigan’s after college group and she wanted to watch it since she hadn’t seen it yet. ::happy sigh:: i really love that movie. what fun.
mother’s day was loverly. i gave my mom a day together. this saturday we’re going to spend the day together doing whatever she wants. if we go out or do anything, i’ll buy. and my brother gave her some cash-ola to spend on our day out. my mom is not a gift person. and she is super difficult to buy for. christmas and birthdays and mothers day with my mom can be rough because she doesn’t want stuff. there have been years where we have just purchased gifts because you’re supposed to, not necessarily b/c that was what she wanted. and over the last year i have been revolting against such practices. i am a stickler for meaningful gifts, not traditional gifts. i hate “lists” – the making of gift/wish lists and the family just divies up what’s on the list and buys the stuff for the wisher. i hate it. we should know each other well enough to know what would be special to that person, and we should be involved enough in each other’s lives to know what the other person would like to receive. at this season in my life, i don’t get a lot of time with my mom. and since she doesn’t care about things, i knew it would be more special to her if i gave her a day. gave her my time. special time together to do whatever she wants to do. it was a happy gift.