a tale of two shoes

image329779556.jpgI am alive! sorry for the silence. life has been pretty crazy with the move, apmt manager job and unpacking. more on all that later.

but about the packing.

in order to fit everything in our car for the trip back to california, we opted to use USPS and ship 3 boxes of stuff to ourselves: 2 boxes of books (yay for media rate!) and 1 box containing some of my clothes.

yesterday I wanted to wear my brown converse tennis shoes – which had been shipped. so I went digging through the box of clothes. about halfway down, I discovered the shoe on the left (in the picture above).

the shoe isn’t mine! and um, it’s also all alone. no pair. huh.

“so weird!” I thought, “how in the world did a random shoe get into my box??” but then I remembered the condition of the box upon arrival.

let’s just say that I bought the box at wal*mart. good news? they are cheap! bad news? they are cheap. upon delivery, the box had half a dozen strips of packing tape on one side that had definitely not been put on by me. it was obvious that the box had started to fall apart and the kind folks at the post office reinforced the box with tape so that it would make it all the way to my sierra madre apmt doorstep.

I’m guessing that another person apparently had the exact same situation (shipping clothing in a crappy box) and it fell apart at the same time mine did?? or maybe there is a special room at the post office transit warehouse for boxes needing to be “helped”? either way, a switch was somehow made. my box received someone else’s shoe.

oh, and someone else received one of my shoes. see the one on the right in the picture above? yeah, I can’t find it’s match. so sad. actually, it’s not all that sad. as cute as those shoes were [are?], I really didn’t wear them much.

I just hope the other someone’s shoes weren’t they’re favorite or anything. given most women’s propensity toward shoe love, that would be very sad indeed.

random thoughts on the drive

I actually started to feel a little sentimental about leaving. Er, leaving our little apmt, not OKC. I didn’t love living in OKC, but it was a special season in the adventure of Zach&Andrea. And I spent a lot of time in that apartment! I made it “home” for 2 months and I have to admit, there were a few twinges of sentimentality as I finished loading the car. But don’t worry, they passed quickly. 😉

Speaking of loading the car, I am a little surprised that we actually managed to fit everything! We shipped 3 boxes of books and 1 box of clothes – and it was a good thing too, seeing as how the car is packed to the gills.

In hindsight, if I had to do it over again, I would have 1) packed less clothes & craft projects, 2) I would have gone “disposable” with more items (like soap dispensers, tupperware, etc and 3) I wouldn’t have bothered even taking certain items like both our alarm clocks (our phones work just fine). But oh well.

Everything along I-40 seems to be forgotten. Seriously. It feels like every stop and shop along this highway is old, run down and well, forgotten. Kind of sad.

Watching movies on the laptop and running the audio through the stereo system makes the time go so much faster!

I’m so glad Zach and I “do” roadtrips the same way. We are different, but we’re not opposites. And thankfully, roadtrips are not an area in which we differ much at all. We stop for coffee, food, gas and bathrooms only as necessary. Otherwise we just want to beeline it to our destination.

After 2 1/2 years of talking about “spending eight weeks in Oklahoma City for training,” (we knew this would happen since we started courting) it’s rather surreal to find ourselves on the other side of this mini milestone.

Even more surreal, is feeling like we have our whole lives ahead of us. With more than enough to keep my brain quite occupied up until this point, I honestly haven’t thought much farther than thru the end of April. (Don’t worry, Zach has. He’s definitely the more long-term, visionary thinker in our marriage, praise God!)

We’re making great time on the road! Currently 75ish miles from the Cali/Az border.

grace church of frisco, tx

during our stay here in oklahoma city, we decided to make the 3-hour drive down to frisco, tx (suburb of dallas) on the weekends to attend grace church of frisco.

(pc – from the grace church website.  because i forgot to get a picture.  shocker.)

we have several friends at grace church and knew that after a week of being “alone” in oklahoma city, we would both want and need fellowship with like-minded believers and friends.

most weeks we just drove down on sunday morning.  since they have 2 services, and the 2nd one starts at 11:15am, that made for a very reasonable morning.  we left oklahoma around 8:15am which gave us enough time for a starbucks stop about halfway and we arrived with a few minutes to spare before the service started.  it was very refreshing each week to be at a church that could so easily feel like a 2nd home – familiar songs and solid teaching.  the sr pastor – craig cabaniss – originally came from zach’s church in pasadena before planting/leading the churches in san diego and now dallas.  the assoc pastor – pete payne – i knew from when he was part of the sovgrace church in denver and have been friends with his family, including his oldest son Jon, who is on staff at the church in gilbert.  see?  all sorts of fun connections.

most weeks we hung out with robbie & kelly hughes:

robbie is a long-time friend of zach’s (and thru zach, became a friend of mine ).  robbie was in our wedding back in sept ’09 and zach got to be in robbie’s wedding this past december!  we are happy to report that kelly is absolutely delightful and we loved getting to spend so much time with them while we’ve been here!

we also spent some time with tim & callie payne, and their adorable little munchkin, annie:

(is annie not one of the cutest little girls ever??)
tim and callie were both friends of mine way back when we were all still single and they lived in denver.  one of the first sundays we went down to frisco, robbie&kelly and zach&i all had lunch at tim&callie’s house after church.  as we sat down around the table i had this moment… having known almost everyone at the table for a good 5+ years and through various seasons of life (ie – i remember when we were all still in school… single… attending conferences and going on crazy late-night trips to DC… and then through courtships and weddings…), it was rather surreal.  it almost felt like we were just pretending.  like we were “playing grown up.”  but no, here we were, all married, we have homes of our own and even kiddos.  kinda crazy and yet really awesome at the same time. 

as we look back over the last 6 weeks that we made it down to frisco for church (the snow prevented us from going down on one of the weeks), zach and i found ourselves so very grateful:
– for a solid church that could feel like home
– for a sovgrace church that was within driving distance
– that the church has 2 services, thus making the drive very reasonable and manageable
– for friendships that have lasted through many years, different seasons, and multi-state moves
– for friends that opened their homes for zach and i to come down and stay overnight on 2 of the weekends we went down
– for a chance to make a “new” friend in robbie’s wife, kelly, and get to know her better
– for the opportunity to serve others (we got to bbsit annie payne one evening b/c tim&callie had band practice) while simultaneously being served by them (staying at their house all weekend)
– that our time here coincided with the “marriage and the mercy of God” seminar with dave&kimm harvey at grace church.  it was our first marriage seminar!
– for the provision to pay for gas, etc to make the drive each week

the original haunted house

image1690687513.jpgThe last 6 weeks that we have driven down to Dallas (Frisco) for church on Sundays, we pass this house on I-35. I’m convinced that it’s the original haunted house. Very creepy.

ear piercing

image263924476.jpgI’ve been wanting to pierce my upper ear for well over a year. A couple weeks ago I remembered that I had wanted to do it and did some online research to see if there was a reputable place here in OKC. Found a good one and this afternoon Zach and I trotted off and had it done! Yes, it hurt a little bit at the moment of puncture, and then my ear felt very warm with a dull sort of ache, but that was it. Now for 4-6 months of salt water soaks, washing my hair with my head tilted to the side, and sleeping facing the left. ha! we’ll see how “good” I am. 🙂

my treasures!

having worked full time for the last 7 years, one of the things i’ve been enjoying the most is TIME during the day.  grocery shopping in the middle of the morning and just taking my time strolling down the aisles, making decisions, getting new ideas, etc.  running errands and not feeling rushed or pressed for time in the slightest.  going from all day, every day, being constantly aware of every single minute… alarm goes off… how many minutes do i have to get ready?  do i really need that much?  can i sleep a few more?how many minutes do i have for a devotion before i have to leave?… oop, gotta leave, i only have 9 minutes to get to work!… what time will my boss be in?  what time did i leave for lunch?  11:35?  ok gotta be walking back in that door by 12:35… leaving at 5… do i really have enough time to make that meal for dinner?  it takes how long to cook?… what time do we need to leave the house to get to X tonight?… etc.  ugh.  i don’t miss that AT ALL.  these days I’m hardly even aware of what time it is during most of the day – what a glorious feeling!

last week i went to target and enjoyed walking around the whole store for over an hour, just for fun.  and to my great delight, i discovered my favoritest pair of jeans were on clearance for $5!  i showed much self control and only purchased 2 more.  i’m a firm believer that you can really never have too many pairs of jeans.  however, i’m probably not going to be this size for the rest of my life, so i don’t really need to have 12+ pairs of the same jeans in my closet.  ha.  no no, 4 will do just fine. 

i was in a newer shopping plaza about 10 miles south of our apartment complex, so once i left target, i thought i’d drive along the buildings and see what else was there.  you know, since i had the time.    and i came across a store named “$1 Jewelry Galore.”  um, YES?  i found these treasures – all for $1 each! 


fun stuff, eh?  i’ve been wanting to expand some of my style tastes, particularly with jewelry, so this was thrilling for me!

i also found some basic t’s at kohls:

to wear under this fun vesty thing (which was basically free because it was on clearance for $9.80 and i had $10 in “kohls cash” – score!):

(with some of the new jewelry of course!)

in sum total, i spent around $40 and got 3 pairs of jeans, 10 pairs of earrings, 3 necklaces, 1 bracelet, 3 tshirts, and a vesty thingy. 

oh and to top it all off – a couple days later, i got a text coupon from target for $5 off any denim purchase.  so i went back!  they had ONE more pair left in my size!  $5 off a pair of jeans on clearance for $5 = a free pair of jeans! 

(i think i’m going to shorten these into capris or bermuda shorts for the summer)

when my mom and i would come home from shopping excursions (of any kind, not just clothes), we would say “come see my treasures!” i think this arose from the dozens of finds my mom discovered at thrift stores – the classic example of one persons “trash” becoming another person’s “treasure.” 

i don’t have a mom or sisters or girl cousins here in OKC to get all excited about my treasures. and while my husband is very happy for me when i find fun new clothes (especially for great deals), it’s just not the same, nor do i want to put that level of pressure on him.  😉  so i’m sharing them with you all! 

oklahoma date night

last week zach and i decided to go on an “oklahoma” themed date night – visiting 3 places that are unique to oklahoma. 

the evening started with my husband showing up at home with “three-lips” (as my mom and i call them) for me!  one of my favorite flowers in such a bright and cheery color (also a favorite)!  🙂

first place was Pops.  Pops is a future-istic style diner on historic route 66 that is famous for having over 500 different kinds of soda pop!

we pulled up and it definitely looked like something out of the jetsons, haha.

with a 66-ft-high LED soda pop bottle out front:

the entryway:

next to our table by the window:

looking up from our table:

the food was pretty basic “diner food.”  nothing amazing, but somehow a good old fashioned burger and fries really hit the spot.

of course, we couldn’t leave without buying several bottles!


(the 3 on the left are my picks and the 3 on the right are zach’s)

we left pops and headed to the memorial site from the oklahoma city bombing.
(all my pictures are pretty crummy because it was dark, and i was using my iphone.  sorry.)


(memorials for each of the 168 people who were killed in the bombing)


a reflecting pool running the full length of the building that was bombed.  at one end was a wall-like structure with “9:01” on it and at the other end was another wall-like structure with “9:03”.  9:01 represents the moment the city was still innocent and unharmed… and 9:03 is when the bomb when off.

it was pretty cold and windy out, so we didn’t stay very long.  i would like to go back and walk through the museum that has since been built…

our last stop was Braum’s ice cream. braum’s is primarily an ice cream place but also has a grill (mostly burgers, i think) and a small grocery section. 

and actually, braum’s isn’t specific to only oklahoma.  they are located throughout oklahoma as well as parts of texas, arkansas, kansas and missouri.  either way, it’s unique to this area of the country and we definitely don’t have them out west. 

i have to say, my reese’s peanut butter was quite tasty, but nothing that really set it apart from DQ, etc.  but i kind of felt like i needed to at least try it while we lived here, right?

it was a fun evening together and we now feel like we can leave oklahoma having seen/experienced at least some of the “interesting” parts of the city.  can’t say i’m gonna miss it, though…  the homesickness is starting to hit us both really hard.  we’re ready to really settle down and not feel like we’re in-between anymore.  praise God we get to hit the road a week from friday – only 11 days left!

more than we could ask or imagine

“Now to him
who is able to do
far more abundantly than all that we ask or think…” 
~ Ephesians 3:20 (ESV)

below is a fairly long story (what can i say?  i’m a sucker for details).  and there are no pictures.  but it is a pretty wonderful story about God providing for us (yet again) more than we had even asked or thought!

before leaving for OKC, we had several financial set-backs that led us to decide to look into apartment managing once in pasadena.  now, for those of you who live in arizona, let me just explain that apartment complexes in the pasadena area are very different than arizona.  in arizona, a complex is typically HUGE, consisting of several hundred units and managed by a separate office with full time staff, maintenance, security, etc.  not so in pasadena.  there, the complexes are MUCH smaller, ranging in size from 8-40 units on average (from what i’ve observed.  i’m sure there are exceptions, obviously).  and typically the owners of the complex will hire a “manager” who lives in one of the units and handles the various issues as they arise (collecting rent checks, submitting maintenance requests, generally enforcing policies, showing vacancies, receiving applications, keeping the laundry room clean, etc).  instead of a salary, the manager receives either free rent or deeply discounted rent.  and with rent running anywhere from $1100-$1800/month (where we were looking), it’s a pretty great way to save a lot of money. 

given the set-backs that we had encountered, we decided that this would be an ideal “job” for me to do while at home.  i love being at home and i’m great with details/administration – perfect fit, right?  our friends, ryan & chalene, have been doing this for a few months now and told us about the management company they work for – and how they will hire you without requiring state certification, as they prefer to just train you themselves.  since the state certification class costs around $500 and consists of a month of evening classes, skipping this whole process sounded VERY appealing to us!  so shortly after arriving in OKC i set to work on drafting a resume and cover letter. 

(sidebar: oh gosh, can i just say that it was very intimidating to create a resume and cover letter?  i’ve honestly NEVER had to do that before.  and it also felt so weird to be all trying to promote myself and make myself look as wonderful as possible.  talk about uncomfortable.  but praise the Lord for the internet and all the tips and examples i was able to find online!)

i sent the email off on monday morning (feb 14th) with a sigh of relief and a lot of prayer.  prayer that God would grant us favor with this company and that they would have an opening for us.  zach and i felt very strongly that this was a wise pursuit and something God was leading us to do.  therefore, we were willing to sacrifice a great many preferences when it came to our living situation.  we knew that this management company has over 25 properties throughout the san gabriel valley (pasadena and surrounding suburbs).  honestly, we were willing to live anywhere in the vicinity if we needed to.  we would take any floor plan and any location and we were budgeting up to $500/$600 month “discounted” rent if we needed to.  the only thing we felt that we really needed was 2 bedrooms. 

a few hours later, i received a call back asking if i could come in for an interview the next day!  uuuhhh.  i explained that i was out of town for my husband’s job training and we would be back in a few weeks.  i mentioned being open to a phone interview or a webcam interview but they said they prefer to do interviews in person and that i should just call them once we get into town.

we were both encouraged by the prompt response but bummed we couldn’t get anything rolling until we got to california.  oh well.  we decided to continue praying that God would keep the right place available for us, even though we had to wait at least 4 weeks. we immediately started looking into living arrangements with family/friends in pasadena since we would need a place to stay when we got there.  our goal was to try and live with family/friends for a month or 2 and pray that God would open something up for us quickly.  not ideal, but we were trusting God’s plan and timing.

friday morning – yes, 4 days later – chalene (our friend who is already doing apmt managing for this company) calls me.  she says that she just stopped by the company office and brought up my name and took the opportunity to talk me up and tell them how great she thought i would be in a position like this.  well, God apparently used that (and the favor that ryan & chalene have with this company already) to prompt them to be interested in a phone interview!  chalene said that they wanted me to email them a few pictures of me and zach and then they would like to talk on the phone.  and then chalene gave us even MORE amazing news: they have a current opening for a manager at an apartment complex in sierra madre that they wanted to interview me for!! 

now let me just explain something.  sierra madre is amazing.  if you’ve ever seen the show “gilmore girls,” it totally has a “stars hollow” feel to it.  small, quiet town with a little “town square” that lots of the residents walk to/through or just sit outside one of the restaurants or coffee shops and read the newspaper or chat with each other in passing.  it has a very safe feel to it as well because the police officers are basically bored and therefore a bit hyperactive when it comes to catching such dastardly criminals like jaywalkers and those-who-park-their-cars-on-the-street-without-a-permit.  my cousin and her husband used to live there and we all think it’s just the most adorable place ever.  literally, this would have been our dream town to live in.  and the complex that this company owns is located less than a block from the park and maybe less than a block from the aforementioned “town sqaure” area (which contains a starbucks and the favorite pub that zach and the band guys have been frequenting for years on band practice nights).

so back to chalene’s phone call.  while we’re still on the phone, she tells me that she is on her way to look at the apartment complex for me! 

(somewhere in here i texted/called zach and he was stoked about this possibility!)

she calls me back a few minutes later as she’s walking through one of the vacant apartments – not the exact one we’ll be living in, but basically the same – and describing it to me and letting me ask her all sorts of random questions about it (how are the wall configurations in the bedroom?  is there counter space in the kitchen?).  i know, i know, i said that all we cared about was having 2 bedrooms, but i figured i might as well ask since she was there!  (and yes, there were 2 bedrooms)  i immediately jumped on my computer and emailed off 3 pictures of the Husband and me with an email letting the hiring lady know that i was eager to schedule an interview at her earliest convenience.

i’m not even joking – 10 minutes after hitting “send” – my cell phone rang.  i was expecting to have at least a couple emails back and forth deciding on a date and time for a phone interview, but i guess not!  before i knew it she was asking me questions.  well, more like 3 questions.  ha!  i’m not even sure i can qualify this as an actual interview experience given that all she really wanted to know was:
– do you work outside the home?  (nope)
– do you plan to get a job outside the home or would apartment managing be it? (nope – this would be it)
– will you be getting back into town in time to accept april 1st rent checks? (um, yes, we are planning to arrive the evening of march 19th)

and that was that.  the lady said she was comfortable giving us the position (!!!) and just needed us to download the application from the website so they could start the paperwork process. 

“oh, and the rent there… let’s see, it’s normally $1525 for regular tenants… but for the manager… it would be… $300.”

i was speechless.

i got off the phone and texted zach some crazy message in all caps about needing to call me right away.  he called and we both couldn’t stop saying “i can’t believe this.”  “i know.”  “sierra madre!”  “i know!”  “$300/month!”  “i know!”  “we can move in RIGHT AWAY!”  “i know!” 

i got off the phone with zach and just bawled.  i was completely overwhelmed by God’s amazing kindness and provision.  all i could think was “more than we could ask or imagine…”  literally, this was far more than i had even been praying for!  gosh, we were just praying there would be an opening somewhere, that it wouldn’t take more than 1-2 months to find a place and that it wouldn’t cost us more than $500/month.  and here we were basically handed a 2 bedroom apartment (and from what i can tell from the floor plan, it appears to be larger than what we had in Arizona!), in our dream town, for dirt cheap, waiting for us, that we can move into as soon as we get into town.  unbelievable. 

then i called our parents.  🙂

we filled out the applications that night and emailed them off the next morning.  i followed up with a phone call about a week later and the lady says, “oh yeah, we’re all good.  we’ll give the keys to chalene so you can move in on the 20th and then we’ll see you on the 21st to finish up a few more paperwork items and go over a few things with you.” (and a few other comments about setting up our electric and gas, etc etc)

it still feels a little surreal.  we are beyond excited and continually amazed and how God provides for us so abundantly!  this is not the first time we have experienced such a thing, and i’m sure it won’t be the last.  i hope it encourages all of you readers as it has encouraged my own soul to reflect on the goodness of our providing God.  this experience has continued to grow my personal prayer and my faith and trust in God and His ability and willingness to move on behalf of this children. 

“…according to the power at work within us,
to him be glory
in the church and in Christ Jesus
throughout all generations,
forever and ever. Amen.
~ Ephesians 3:21 (ESV)